Perception of Faces: Pareidolia

I love posting about the phenomenon by which the brain interprets indistinct images as specific ones. It's called Pareidolia and here are some new images. Can you see faces here?








Definitely a face here, don'tcha think?











Another face. Kinda monkey-like.















What a happy metal face.








This baby toy is totally smiling.

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Flushing Out The Liar

How can we tell who’s lying and who’s not?

Fidgety hands?

Stuttering speech?

Pants on fire?

Actually, it seems that the face will betray true emotion if we look for it. So, it isn't in the sweaty brow, the hesitant words or the shifty eyes. Instead, it's the liar's facial muscles that "crack” or "leak" through, displaying the real emotion. For more read here

Another technique to test for truthfulness is to ask a person to recall his or her story backwards - From end to beginning in sequential stages. Reverse order is harder to create than building a lie from the start. Telling the story from its end to its beginning will be easy for the truth teller.

Interesting stuff . . .and I ain't lying.

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How To Ask For Help

I did an interview with writer Janene Mascerella for The Tyra Banks Show on How To Ask For Help.

Some of us find it easy to ask for help from others. But for many, asking for help is NOT an easy thing to do.

Do these myths keep you stuck?

Myth: It makes us look vulnerable.

Truth: Asking for help creates an atmosphere of empowerment. It communicates to others that, while you may not have the answers, you are willing to find them and make things better.

Myth: Holding things in and keeping personal issues under wraps keeps us secure.

Truth: In reality, not allowing yourself to be "known" keeps you socially isolated, and therefore, insecure. When you seek the counsel of others, you'll not only connect with them, but you'll also realize that you're not alone in your struggle.

Myth: It bother others. Truth: Doing it all can do you in. Being too self-sufficient can create stress levels that tip your physical, emotional and spiritual scales. Myth: Highly successful people never ask for help.

Truth: Actually, successful individuals will tell you that the key to success is knowing your strengths and weaknesses. Learning how to delegate, asking for help and letting others show you the way are part of the plan. Successful people are driven and motivated -- and when the going gets tough, the tough ask for help!

Myth: I am a giver. I don't like when others help me.

Truth: Get over it. With practice, you'll learn to be comfortable when others help you. And before long, you'll come to realize that you deserve a helping hand every now and then.

Remember:

Have realistic expectations for the kind of help you are seeking

Express your needs simply and clearly

Let others know you are there to help them as well

Praise your pals for their assistance and pat yourself for asking for help




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Laughter is SUCH Good Medicine

In the spirit of Laughter is good medicine, enjoy this.

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Portable Hugs

Brian Mullen, a doctoral mechanical engineering student at The University of Massachusetts Amherst, has developed a portable hug vest - also known as a "deep-pressure” vest.


The vest, available for children and adults with sensorimotor issues or mental illness, delivers a “portable hug” via Deep Pressure Touch Stimulation (DPTS).



DPTS has been around a while, helping to reduce anxiety and harmful behaviors by providing a calming sensory experience. It has been shown to improve the lives of individuals with Autism, Alzheimer's, Asperger's, ADHD, PTSD and other neuropsychological illnesses. And FYI, blankets, sleeping bags, other clothing and accessories are available in weighted forms.



It's always so cool when technology enhances lives.

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Social Anxiety & "Lars & The Real Girl"

Social Anxiety Disorder is characterized by overwhelming anxiety and excessive self-consciousness in everyday social situations.

The anxiety can occur in limited situations — such as a fear of speaking in front of others - writing on a blackboard in front of the class - eating in front of others, just to name a few. It can, however, be quite broad in its scope, leaving an individual so anxious around other people that they seek to be alone. Total avoidance.

Lars & The Real Girl explores aspects of Social Anxiety Disorder and other mental illness in a meaningful way. It is a beautiful, sensitive and smart movie about the origins of mental illness and how to work them through.

If you get the chance, check it out. And if you've seen it, let me know what you think.

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Subconscious Motivation

Psychological Science reports that reading motivational words can really help you reach goals. The subtlety of these positive subliminal messages register in the subconscious mind. When absorbed, these motivational cues can help to create positive change.

Make sure the words or phrases you choose are within view- so that you can subconsciously keep your motivation going, even when you may not be on task. Be it sticky notes, motivational pictures, doodles or music, keep the communication upbeat and nurturing.

I am working on a big project, so my inspirational words would be Dream Big. I made the photo above with Flickr Toys , and use it as my screen saver. I have a few Post Its in neon colors around the home and office with the same phrase. And I have an iTunes playlist with dream themes!

So, what would your motivational words be?

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